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IN LOVING MEMORY OF
Oct 4, 1965 — Jan 26, 2025
Chris Lee Raymer, son of the late Ivan Leo Raymer and Linda (Skaggs) Raymer, was born in Poplar Bluff, Missouri, on October 4, 1965. He departed this life surrounded by loved ones at his residence in Wappapello, Missouri, on January 26, 2025, at the age of 59.
Chris was a Veteran of the United States Navy. He was a member of the American Legion Post #24 in Blytheville, Arkansas, and Open Door Church in Holcomb, Missouri. Chris enjoyed hunting, fishing, hiking, water sports, and traveling. His greatest joy was spending time with his family and friends.
Chris knew what friendship was all about, the unwavering support through life's ups and downs, understanding your flaws, and celebrating your triumphs. He was trustworthy and always offered a listening ear or a helping hand. To understand Chris is to watch him pour love and energy into you and your family, never asking for anything in return. He had a giving heart, always wanting to provide for the needs of everyone close to him. Chris spent many years enjoying his friends and family at the lake. He loved the outdoors—camping, boating, hunting, and fishing—and shared in the moments that created close relationships. His joy came from making everyone around him smile, leaving a lasting impact on everyone around him.
As a father, Chris was the kind of person who made everything better just by being there. His love for us was immeasurable. He showed his love in countless ways, whether through quiet moments together or big, unforgettable adventures. We always knew that no matter what life threw our way, he would be there—ready to listen, offer advice, or just sit with us in silence, letting us know we weren't alone. Dad was our biggest cheerleader and protector. He didn't just support us; he empowered us. He taught us how to be strong, kind, and how to face challenges head-on. His belief in us was unwavering. Whether we were fishing on the lake, working on projects together, or sharing a laugh over dinner, he always made us feel special and important. He had a unique way of making every moment feel like an adventure, and he made sure we knew that we were his greatest pride. Being his child was a gift—he always made us feel loved, safe, and valued, no matter the circumstances.
Dad wasn't just a father to us; he was our friend, our mentor, and the person we could count on no matter what. He always knew when we needed guidance, when we needed a laugh, or when we simply needed a hug. His ability to know exactly what we needed in any given moment was one of the many things that made him so amazing. He showed us how to live with integrity, treat others with respect, and find joy in the simplest things. His wisdom was vast, but it was his heart that made him extraordinary. He was never too busy to listen, and he always made us feel like we were the most important people in his world.
We'll never forget the little things he did that made all the difference—the words of encouragement when we doubted ourselves, the pride in his voice when he spoke about us. His influence in our lives is immeasurable, and we carry so many of his lessons and memories with us every day. It was in his dedication to us, his quiet strength, and the way he led by example. He didn't just tell us what was important—he showed us, through his actions, the true meaning of love, loyalty, and resilience. Dad had a way of showing love without ever asking for anything in return. Whether it was helping a friend or putting the needs of others before his own, he gave of himself freely. His kindness and generosity weren't just words—they were how he lived every day. We've seen firsthand how he touched so many lives, both in his career and through his friendships. He made everyone feel like they mattered, like they were worth his time and energy. And to us, his children, he made us feel like the most important people in the world.
He never shied away from showing his love. He was always there to remind us how much we were capable of, and how proud he was of us, no matter where we were in life. His love wasn't just in the big moments, but in the quiet, everyday things—whether it was a phone call, or a simple "I love you." The warmth of his presence was enough to make any difficult situation feel manageable, and his confidence in us helped us find strength we never knew we had.
Dad's love for his children was unmatched. He was always there for us, in every way, and he made sure we knew how much we meant to him. He helped shape who we are today, and while we will miss him more than words can express, we know that the love and lessons he gave us will live on in our hearts forever. His laughter, his strength, and his love will never be forgotten, and we will carry them with us as we navigate this life.
Chris dedicated his life to the health and wellness of others, beginning his career as an EMT and paramedic. He then went on to become an Emergency Room nurse, and eventually moved into leadership roles as Director of Nursing, CFO, COO, and CEO. Chris completed his Master's in Nursing, became a Licensed APRN, and worked as a Hospitalist, ultimately serving as an APRN at Poplar Bluff Regional Medical Center. His passion for healthcare extended beyond the hospital, as he frequently participated in medical mission trips and volunteered at the Great River Charitable Health Clinic in Blytheville, AR. Throughout his career, Chris found immense fulfillment in making a difference in the lives of others, both locally and internationally.
Chris was preceded in death by his parents, Ivan and Linda Raymer. He is survived by one son, Christopher Raymer and wife Angie of Calistoga, California; three daughters, Faith Tedeschi and husband Mario of Calistoga, California; Drew Raymer of Poplar Bluff, Missouri; and Danni Brown and husband Ethan of Poplar Bluff, Missouri; one brother, Kenny Raymer of Elsinore, Missouri; one sister, Virginia Belt of Hunter, Missouri; and three grandchildren: Enzo, Valentino, and Willow. Chris will be deeply missed by a host of relatives and friends who will mourn his passing.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, May 24, 2025, at 3:00 PM - sunset at Wappapello Lake (4 Wayne 510 A, Wappapello, MO 63966), a place that brought Chris peace. All are invited to join in remembering his extraordinary life, sharing stories, and creating new memories. Please RSVP to his daughter, Faith, at faithmr26@gmail.com or 870-623-5476.
Arrangements by McSpadden Funeral Home, Ellington, Missouri
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Wappapello Lake
Starts at 1:00 pm
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